Good hearts ……


“Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.” 
~Desmond Tutu

In the rapidly changing world all around me, I witness people becoming more self-centric and less sensitive towards their fellow human beings. But some days, a simple gesture by an ordinary mortal from this ‘bad’ world makes me feel that goodness still prevails :).

A few such gestures of goodness I witnessed during the last few days:

  • A traffic policeman helping two ladies and the 3 kids with them, to cross one of the busiest roads in the city I live in.
  • The laundry man I give my clothes to press refusing to take my advance payment. He said,” kaam karne se pehle paisa lena accha nahi lagta”.
  • One of the autowalas from the auto stand, from where I take my daily auto to office, reminding me that I had to get back Rs 10 from him, when many others chose to forget it in the same scenario.
  • My otherwise stingy landlord & landlady offering me to use their kitchen when I could not get a refill of my LPG cylinder.
  • The vegetable selling boy near my home, who has a bright smile on his face every day, without fail. He very often asks me to pay the bill later when neither of us have the required change.
  • Saw a friend of mine buying a packet of biscuits to a physically disabled beggar, instead of giving him a coin.

Till people like them exist, I am sure goodness shall prevail and so will humanity.


Festival of Lights

We Indians love to celebrate. And we are privileged to have so many festivals round the year that we never run out of occasions to celebrate. Deepawali or Diwali is certainly the biggest and the brightest of all the festivals. It’s the festival of lights (deep = light and avali = a row i.e., a row of lights) that’s marked by four days of celebration, which literally illumines the country with its brilliance, and dazzles all with its joy. Each of the four days in the festival of Diwali is separated by a different tradition, but what remains true and constant is the celebration of life, its enjoyment and goodness.

Today I dedicate this post to this wonderful festival of lights with a little information about the reasons behind the festival.

The Origin of Diwali

Historically, the origin of Diwali can be traced back to ancient India, when it was probably an important harvest festival. However, there are various legends pointing to the origin of Diwali or ‘Deepawali.’ Some believe it to be the celebration of the marriage of Lakshmi with Lord Vishnu. Whereas in Bengal, the festival is dedicated to the worship of Mother Kali, the dark goddess of strength. Lord Ganesha, the elephant-headed God, the symbol of auspiciousness and wisdom, is also worshiped in most Hindu homes on this day. In Jainism, Deepawali has an added significance to the great event of Lord Mahavira attaining the eternal bliss of nirvana. Diwali also commemorates the return of Lord Rama along with Sita and Lakshman from his fourteen year long exile and vanquishing the demon-king Ravana. In joyous celebration of the return of their king, the people of Ayodhya, the Capital of Rama, illuminated the kingdom with earthen diyas (oil lamps) and burst crackers.

The Four Days

Each day of Diwali has its own tale, legend and myth to tell.

The first day of the festival Naraka Chaturdasi marks the vanquishing of the demon Naraka by Lord Krishna and his wife Satyabhama. People rise as early as 3am on Naraka Chaturdashi. The bathing process followed on this day is rather intricate and elaborate; women bathe with utan (mix of ayurvedic herbs) and scented oils. Sounds of firecrackers fill the air by 4am and stop only after sunrise. The day is spent hosting neighbours, relatives and friends, and exchanging gifts and sweets.

Amavasya, the second day of Deepawali, marks the worship of Lakshmi, the goddess of wealth in her most benevolent mood, fulfilling the wishes of her devotees. On this day, the house is cleaned and lamps are lit and rangolis are made in order to make the Goddess Lakshmi feel welcome to the household.

Amavasya also tells the story of Lord Vishnu, who in his dwarf incarnation vanquished the tyrant Bali, and banished him to hell. Bali was allowed to return to earth once a year, to light millions of lamps to dispel the darkness and ignorance, and spread the radiance of love and wisdom. It is on the third day of Deepawali — Kartika Shudda Padyami that Bali steps out of hell and rules the earth according to the boon given by Lord Vishnu.

The fourth day is referred to as Yama Dvitiya (also called Bhai Dooj) and on this day sisters invite their brothers to their homes.

The Significance of lights and firecrackers

All the simple rituals of Diwali have significance and a story to tell. The illumination of homes with lights and the skies with firecrackers is an expression of obeisance to the heavens for the attainment of health, wealth, knowledge, peace and prosperity. According to one belief, the sound of fire-crackers is an indication of the joy of the people living on earth, making the gods aware of their plentiful state. Still another possible reason has a more scientific basis: the fumes produced by the crackers kill a lot of insects and mosquitoes, found in plenty after the rains.

The Tradition of Gambling

The tradition of gambling on Diwali also has a legend behind it. It is believed that on this day, Goddess Parvati played dice with her husband Lord Shiva, and she decreed that whosoever gambled on Diwali night would prosper throughout the ensuing year. Diwali is associated with wealth and prosperity in many ways, and the festival of ‘Dhanteras‘ (‘dhan’ = wealth; ‘teras’ = 13th) is celebrated two days before the festival of lights.

From Darkness into light….

In each legend, myth and story of Deepawali lies the significance of the victory of good over evil; and it is with each Deepawali and the lights that illuminate our homes and hearts, that this simple truth finds new reason and hope. From darkness unto light — the light that empowers us to commit ourselves to good deeds, that which brings us closer to divinity.

Regardless of how tough a year has been – the sights and sounds of Diwali, the love, camaraderie and good cheer that pervades the atmosphere, diminishes sorrows and manages to rekindle hope in the hearts of even the most seasoned cynics. Diwali is a celebration of life and all the good that it has to offer, it is a time for togetherness and bonding.

I hope everyone had a wonderful Diwali this year. Let us pledge to keep the spirit of the festival alive throughout the year.